Showing posts with label how to calm myself down. Show all posts
Showing posts with label how to calm myself down. Show all posts

Friday, January 25, 2013


Don’t Stress Out, RELAX!

Here’s a little exercise to feel the difference between being tense and stressed out, and being relaxed. Start by making tight fists, clench your jaw, bring your shoulders up to your ears, and squeeze every muscle in your body tight,thight,tight. Now take a deep breath and on the exhale just let go and completely relax. Let every muscle release every bit of tension. Feel the circulation coming back to your whole body and the relief washing over you.
So next time you feel yourself tensing up, take a deep breath and let go. How does that feel?
SQUEEZE ME

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Tip of The Day


Pull Yourself Together!!

Feeling like you’re going in to many directions at once? You need to ground and center yourself. Start by sitting up tall with your fee flat on the floor; put your hands together in front of your heart, prayer position. Now bow your head, close your eyes and take 3 or more breaths, until you feel you focus and attention coming back to you. Open your eyes take a deep breath and pick one thing to get back to.

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Tip of the Day


Don’t let your mind go to many places at once. Tying to keep up with a wondering mind can be exhausting. Too avoid extra stress and strain; keep your mind on one task at a time.

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Tip of the Day


Leave all your baggage at the door: When it is time for you to work out, leave everything behind you, Drop it at the door and let it wait till you are done. Come back with a clear calm mind, and a new perspective.

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Tip of the Day


Keep yourself connected: Get your mind and body working together on one task, maintain focus, and let everything else go.

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Tip of the Day


Hope your holiday is filled with peace, love, joy, and a few quiet moments for yourself.
In the midsts of all the getting ready, running, or whatever you have to do today, take a few moments close your eyes and breathe. Create a calm warm felling for yourself and those around you. 

Monday, December 10, 2012

Tip of the Day


 

Relaxation Exercise


 

It’s the end of the year, holiday time, Time to run around and get it all done. Run from here to there from one thing to the next. We tend to push ourselves and get all wound up, so what happens when you need rest, it can be difficult to wind down. Here is a relaxation exercise to calm your body and mind and maybe even help you drift off to sleep.
Start by finding a comfortable position either sitting or laying down, it’s up to you. Take 2 or three deep breaths and turn your attention to your body, look for areas that seem tight or tense, don’t do anything just take notice.Now focus on your toes. How do they feel, are the muscles tight or tense, or are they soft and relaxed? If the muscles are tense think about relaxing them hold your focus and let the tension go. It may take some time for this to work for you so if it’s not working move on and then come back to it. The more you practice the easier it will become to let go. Once you are finished with our toes move on to the feet, focus your attention and let your muscles relax. If your mind starts to wander don’t be concerned jus gently bring it back to your feet. Next is the ankles, then the calves, knees and thighs. Slowly work your way up the bodies to the shoulders from there go down the arm to your fingertips. Start working your way back up the arms to the neck the head and the face , hit every area you can think of including such areas as ,the eyebrows, cheeks, jaw ,throat, and eyes. Once you have finished do a scan over your whole body look for any muscles the may still feel tight and go back to them one by one. Start from where you left off and work your way back down the body to the feet. The more you do it the easier it gets and the muscles tend to let go a bit faster. Don’t expect anything, each time you practice may bring a different experience, enjoy it.

·      There is a good possibility that will drift off or fall asleep while doing this exercise, so doing it before bed may be a god idea for you.

 

However you choose to do it, give yourself enough time to relax and remain that way for as long as possible.

Enjoy and be well.

Monday, October 29, 2012

Tip of the Day

Just Breathe

Keeping your mind focused on something as simple as you breathing
can help to create time space and a relaxed atmosphere for you.
So if it's all too much to handle, stop and breathe.

Monday, October 8, 2012

Finding That First 5 Minutes


Finding time for yourself in a busy schedule can be a challenge, are you up for it? Challenge yourself with the task of finding time in your own schedule for you.

Start by making a list of the things you want to do. Once you have that pick out the things you know are possible. There is no sense in making a list of things that can’t be done that will only bring disappointment, and your goal is a happier more fulfilled life.

Here are a few suggestions that take little time, cost nothing, and can be done in a number of locations.

Go for a walk:

Weather permitting of course. Any time during the day you can take a break. At lunch, after dinner, in between classes, when the kids are at practice any time you can. Get some exercise and fresh air, clear your mind, listen to music, walk the dog. Enjoy your time.



Regular Exercise: 

Exercising regularly, there are many ways to get exercise daily and stay fit; I will be exploring many different ways for you to get your exercise.


Breathing Exercises:

What will it do for you? Breathing Exercises can help to reduce irritability, muscle tension, headaches, and fatigue; they can help you to relax and relieve stress.

Time to learn: a few minutes

Time to practice: Anywhere from 30 seconds to 5 minutes to start..

Where can you do it? This is something that can be done almost anywhere.  At home, work, sitting in the car (not driving) in waiting rooms there are so many possibilities.



Guided Meditation :

What will it do for you? Meditation quiets the mind, when the mind is quiet the body can relax .Meditation can reduce stress lower blood pressure; help you relax as well as reenergize you.

 Time to learn : The more you meditate the better you get at it . I recommend short guided meditations to start, I have found it helps to have something to listen to and focus on. Look for guided meditation mp3 wherever you get you music.

Time to practice:  Start with just a few min and gradually work your way up. The more you do it easier it becomes.

Where can you do it? Some place quiet where you will not be disturbed. I like to download guided meditations on to my mp3 player. Find a quiet spot in the house office, in the car (not while driving) outside on a nice day or even waiting for the kids at a practice.



Reading : Why not wind down before bed with a good book. Take your E reader while you Waite at the Dr’s office. Sit outside on a nice day during your lunch break.


Music : Listening to music you love can make a big difference in your mood design playlists for different things you have to do, like, exercise, cleaning, driving, quiet time before bed or reading.


Getting out with friends : Try to make time to socialize, getting out regularly and enjoying yourself can really lift sprits. Give yourself time with friends as often as you can.